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DAY 1 - Make a list of disgusting things for each of you. Have fun!
The very first activity on your calendar is a fun one. So enjoy it with a hearty laughter 😄
Desired outcomes: strengthen the relationship by finding out things about each other (connection) in a very relaxed way (fun, relaxation), learning to share, expressing love.
The catch of this activity, as well as of ALL the others, is to accept anything they share with no judgment. Take it as it is shared, have fun (no criticism), make them feel they are fully accepted and loved as they are. They are complete, they are enough, they are lovable and loved.
You may want to write the list, draw it, or simply verbalize it. Do it as it works best for all of you. You may even begin with this question: My love (or how you call them), if we were to make a list of the things that disgust us (make a disgusted face), how would you prefer to do it? Then share your preference, if you have one, negotiate and play.
Use the opportunity to discuss about the 5 senses (disgusting smells, tastes, words, textures, pictures, etc.) and also about other things that may be disgusting: behaviors, attitudes, etc.
What about emotions?
Could they be disgusting? Given they all have a role, a meaning, even those labeled as negative (my opinion is there is no such distinction, emotions just are, they are not good or bad) and also that we should never, ever be ashamed of our emotions, I guess the answer might be no.
Keep the conversation relaxed and fun, you’re playing, after all.